pings and dms/asks are perfectly fine! i more than likely won't accept friend requests most places unless we talk on a regular basis, but also i enjoy talking with people, even if i don't always know what to say! shoot me a message, i genuinely appreciate them.
i don't tend to interact with minors first initially! you're welcome to message me all the same, but i generally won't be the one to start a dm.
just as a general warning, i do reclaim slurs in reference to myself at times.
i support nondysphoric trans people and people using whatever pronouns they believe accurately describe them, and i generally assume everyone identifies the way they do in good faith. if any of that is a problem, i'm not someone you should interact with.
i do not support endogenic "systems" and the like. i don't engage with syscourse as someone with polyfragmented DID and i'd like it far away from me.
i have a lot of complex feelings on fiction and reality aren't really covered by the labels "anti" or "proshipper". however, i do not want to interact with proshippers at large. this is another topic i'd like far away from me, and you can read more about what i have to say on the topic here.